Are Dogs the Best Therapy?

Are Dogs the Best Therapy?

One year ago, I lost my chihuahua Toby. This was the day I had dreaded from the moment his eyes met mine twelve years before. I was in puppy love and knew my heart would crumble when the time came to say goodbye. And it did. After his passing, I quickly packed up all...

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The 3 C’s: What you really need and how to get it

The 3 C’s: What you really need and how to get it

Could every issue you face boil down to a C word? No, it’s not communication—although that plays a role. In fact, you have a choice of 3 C’s: control, connection or competence. These are core emotional needs that sit at the root of your discontent. When neglected,...

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Can People Change?

Can People Change?

Can people change? I am frequently asked this question, despite my therapy practice having the tag line create meaningful change. I usually answer with a simple “yes, of course I believe people can change, that’s why I do what I do”. It seems however that scepticism...

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Tips for Launching your Counselling Private Practice

Tips for Launching your Counselling Private Practice

Are you considering going into private practice? Does the idea fill you with a combination of excitement and fear? Like most things in life, owning a private practice comes with pros and cons. One of the major benefits is you can work in your own way, sculpting the...

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How to do Self-Love

How to do Self-Love

I’m sure you have heard the cliché; you need to love yourself first. But what the heck does that mean and how do you do it? If you are baffled by the concept of self-love, you are not alone. Unfortunately, this essential life skill remains a mystery to many. So, let’s...

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Curiosity: The Great Un-sticker (Part 2)

Curiosity: The Great Un-sticker (Part 2)

This is a sequel about getting unstuck. In the previous edition, Curiosity helped us understand the problem (read it here). This is an incredibly important part of the process, so don’t skip it. You need to enter this second phase with a firm grasp on the problem. If...

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Curiosity: The Great Un-sticker (Part One)

Curiosity: The Great Un-sticker (Part One)

Are you feeling stuck? Stuck at work, in a relationship or on a project? Does it feel like there is no way out? I bet you there is. Yes, I know you haven’t been twiddling your thumbs, waiting for your ‘stuckness’ to pass. You feel stuck because you have thought of and...

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Expectations: Your Emotional Dial Controllers

Expectations: Your Emotional Dial Controllers

What are you expecting from this blog? Perhaps, to be entertained, educated, or inspired? Or are you keeping your expectations low (after all you’ve been disappointed by blogs before)? Either way, these expectations will influence your experience it. That’s because...

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Hope and Boundaries – A Dynamic Duo

Hope and Boundaries – A Dynamic Duo

As you stand at the starting block, another year ahead, are you hoping at to improve at least one area of your life this year? I hope so! That is, I hope, you hope to make some form of positive change. In an earlier blog (Response-ability) we touched on the idea of...

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Keep your Relationship Accounts in the Black

Keep your Relationship Accounts in the Black

We make bids for connection every day. These can be as simple as smile, a text, a hug, sharing a story or idea. Some of our bids get accepted while others get rejected or ignored. These failed bids for connection are behind many of our interpersonal conflicts (aka The...

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